Frequently asked questions
Answers to the questions families ask us most.
Understanding cremation
What's the difference between private and communal cremation?
In a private cremation, your pet is cremated alone and their ashes are returned to you. In a communal cremation, several pets are cremated together and ashes are not returned; they are scattered in a natural, private setting that becomes their final resting place. Both are carried out with the same care.
Will I get my own pet's ashes back?
Yes, with a private cremation. Our equipment has individual chambers, so your pet is kept on their own from start to finish, and every private cremation comes with a certificate of cremation.
How do you keep track of my pet?
Each pet receives an ID tag at pickup that stays with them through every step.
Where are communal ashes scattered?
In a private and peaceful setting overlooking the Lake of the Ozarks.
Which should I choose?
There is no wrong choice. Private cremation is right for families who want to keep their pet's ashes at home, scatter them somewhere meaningful, or have them made into a keepsake. Communal cremation is a gentle, lower-cost option for families who don't need ashes returned. Not receiving the ashes back does not mean you love your pet any less.
Do you cremate pets of every size?
Yes. We are a small animal facility, caring for pets from birds and rabbits up to large dogs.
Arranging a cremation
How do I arrange a cremation with Affinity?
The simplest way is to ask your veterinary clinic for a cremation with Affinity; most of the clinics we serve arrange everything for you. You can see the clinics we serve on our Clinics we serve page, or call us at (573) 875-7825.
What if my pet died at home?
Call your veterinary clinic, or call us at (573) 875-7825, and we'll explain your next steps.
My clinic isn't on your list. Can I still use Affinity?
Yes. Call us at (573) 875-7825 and we'll tell you how we can help. Your veterinarian is also welcome to contact us about working together.
Can I bring my pet to you myself?
Please contact one of our partner clinics, and they will take care of the details for you.
Can I be there or say goodbye at your facility?
Unfortunately, we do not have a place in our facility for you to say goodbye to your pet.
How much does pet cremation cost?
Your veterinary clinic will discuss the options with you. The cost depends on the size of your pet and the options you choose.
How do I pay?
Cremations are paid through your veterinary clinic. Memorials ordered on our website are paid securely through Square.
What are your hours?
We're available for phone calls and emails on weekdays from 7:30 am to 4 pm.
Getting your pet's ashes back
How long until my pet's ashes come home?
Typically within 2 weeks after we receive your pet from the clinic, and up to 6 weeks when specialty items are ordered.
Where do I pick up my pet's ashes?
We return your pet to the clinic they came from.
What will the ashes come in?
Your pet's ashes come home in a size-appropriate container chosen through your veterinary clinic.
Can I order an urn after my pet's ashes are already home?
Yes. You can order any time from our website.
Will I get a certificate?
Yes. Every private cremation comes with a certificate of cremation.
Memorials and keepsakes
What kinds of memorials do you offer?
We offer wooden and metal urns, small keepsake urns you can carry with you, handcrafted paw prints, and memorial jewelry made with your pet's whiskers, hair or ashes.
What size urn do I need?
Urn size depends on your pet's weight. If you're unsure, call us and we'll help you choose.
How do paw prints work?
We take an ink print of your pet's paw, engrave it into a wooden plaque with your pet's name below it, then color it and seal it with a smooth finish.
Can you make a paw print from a print I already have?
Yes. We can make a plaque from any ink print, even one taken long ago.
How is memorial jewelry made?
Your pet's whiskers or ashes are carefully set into a custom-colored setting under clear, jewelry-grade resin and glass. You choose the color.
How do I add my pet's name, a color, or whiskers to my order?
Choose them on the product page before you add it to your cart. Add any other details in the Order special instructions box in your cart, or call us at (573) 875-7825.
Can I return a custom piece?
Because each piece is made just for your pet, custom orders are final and can't be returned. Please check your details before checkout, and call us first if you have any questions.
Can my memorial be returned with my pet's ashes?
Yes. At checkout you can choose to have your order returned with your pet's ashes or shipped to you. Put those details in your note at checkout.
Support after your loss
Is it normal to grieve this much for a pet?
Yes. Pets are family, and losing one can hurt as much as losing any loved one. There's no right way or timeline to grieve.
Where can I find support?
You don't have to go through this alone. Local counselors and support groups can help.
I have questions about my pet's last days or the euthanasia visit. Who can help?
Your veterinarian is the best person to talk with about your pet's care, comfort, and end-of-life decisions.
Can I talk with someone at Affinity?
Always. Call (573) 875-7825 or send us a message. There's no question too small.
For veterinary clinics
Which clinics does Affinity work with?
We partner with veterinary clinics across Missouri, from Columbia and Jefferson City to the Lake of the Ozarks, Springfield, Branson, Kirksville and the St. Louis area. See the full list on our Clinics we serve page.
How often do you pick up?
We have scheduled pickups throughout the week for each area's clinics. Please ask us for the details.
How do you track each pet from our clinic to the family?
Each pet has an ID tag from pickup that follows them through the whole process.
How are clinics billed?
Clinics are billed monthly, by email at the end of the month.
Do you provide materials for our clients?
Yes, we would be happy to provide you with materials.
How do we become a partner clinic?
Call (573) 875-7825 or send us a message, and we'll be happy to get back to you.
Still have a question?
Get in touch and we'll help.